Did you know that Michael Jordan, after being cut from his high
school basketball team, went home, locked himself in his bedroom and
cried?
Or that Walt Disney was fired from a newspaper for “lacking imagination” and “having no original ideas”?
And the Beatles were rejected by Decca Recording studios, who claimed “They have no future in show business.”
And Oprah Winfrey — one of the wealthiest women on the planet — was
demoted from her job as a news anchor because she “Wasn’t fit for
television.”
I’ve even experienced this myself, when I was told by a mentor that I
“shouldn’t coach on the topic of money, as too many people were already
doing it”.
Really? You’re serious?
It still astounds me when I think about it, especially considering
that I’m now recognized as the leading expert on women entrepreneurs and
money!
It’s easy to look back now at any of these situations and see how
crazy wrong people were about all of us. But in the early days,
experiencing rejection, disapproval and doubt from others can be
devastating.
When you’re putting yourself out into the world in a big way —
whether it’s through speaking, launching teleseminars, hosting a live
event, making an offer from stage or simply trying to get your business
income flowing and stabilized — you open yourself up to creating amazing
success…or failure.
The question isn’t whether or not you might fail, but will you allow a letdown to define
you. Which is why I’m tackling this sensitive subject and sharing my
best, personal tips to help you bounce back from any business breakdown,
with greater wisdom and clarity…and even a massive boost to your
self-esteem.
Look Past — And Outlast — Your Fear
On the other side of fear is freedom, which means that no matter what
happened, you’ve learned from your experience and now know what not to
do, as well as what you’ll do differently the next time. This is the
moment to reconnect to your Big WHY, recharging your passion and
commitment for being of service to others, via a thriving business.
Don’t Turn One Breakdown Into A Self-Fulfilling Prophecy
Being an entrepreneur is one of the greatest paths to self discovery on
the planet. Which means a business breakdown is likely going to trigger
old self-worth issues. Remember, YOU are at choice here! So instead of
succumbing to a pity-party, put on your big girl panties and dig in to
discover what you could have done differently to make your last launch
or idea more successful.
Get Real With Yourself
A colleague of mine worked her butt off to fill her live events, yet
never seemed to attract more than 100 people, no matter what she did.
And the response to her offers from the stage was embarrassingly small.
Disheartened but determined, she used the opportunity to get real with
herself and quickly realized that live events were not really “her
thing”.
Turns out, she has an enviable talent for a completely different form
of marketing, which she’s now 100% committed to and consistently
producing 6-figure launches as a result.
The point is, being in business isn’t a cookie-cutter formula. Sure,
use the information and strategies taught by others as a guide, but be
sure to include what’s authentic for YOU in your marketing mix.
Get Into Action Again, Today
Often, experiencing a less than stellar launch or project can provide
you with the feedback you need to turn right around and make lemonade
out of lemons. In business, momentum is critical! So take your list of
specific action items you now see you can do differently the next time
and “create your next time” as quickly as possible.
For example, let’s say you just delivered a presentation for an
audience of your ideal clients, and no one inquired about working with
you. What was missing from the mix? Did you forget to make an offer for
your free give away? Did you offer more than one way of working with
you, and create confusion in the minds of your audience? Were you clear
and specific about the situations you help people solve or did people
seem not engaged with your message?
Your best bet in situations like this is to get another speaking gig
booked A.S.A.P. so you can implement the changes you know see you need
to make.
Even The Most Successful People In
Your Industry Have Business Breakdowns…So Remember That YOU Are On The
Path Of Becoming Amazing!
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